Fleeced was more to an overall lose of funds and assets to all parites, i.e. lawyers, wife, etc. The reason I used the word "secret" is my wife is highly emotional and unstable. I have contacted a couple mental professionals but they said they cannot do anything unless she comes in on her own or is a threat to someone or herself. I think I am getting close to the point that she is a threat to me. Sorry for the confusion.