I live in Greenville, home of East Carolina University. The problem is paying for the assistant. Today, I asked XH to take d12 for the summer so I can work. He got PO and said that either I keep her 100% of the time --ALL the time OR He and Korean wife would do that but I would never ever see d12 again nor would I get CS anymore. I love my d12, but I need time to work, build my career because unlike "other woman" I DID NOT STEAL a husband/ father with a good job. I have NO ONE who can support me. I must start over and that is what I am trying to do. It is very hard and sometimes depressing, like tonight. Any suggestions? Many thanks.