Divorce Support Forums: question 4 fathers

Is it right for a man to walk away from his children w/ o any regards that they completely adore him. 3 MONTHS go by and they don't even see him, he phones when he feels time to do so, they aren't comfortable w/ calling him because GF stepped in on 1 phone call as he was talking on the speaker phone w/ the kids and told our 9 yr old, " don't call him and you don't need to bother him w/your stuff, then she hung up." he didn't respond to that at all. So, now the kids don't phone him and neither do they pick up the phone when he calls (whenever that happens) He made a comment one afternoon when he phoned and our 11 yr old answered "IF YOUR MOM DOESN'T WANT YOU TALKING TO ME THEN FINE." hE FAILED TO ACCEPT HIS ACCOUNTABILITY IN WHAT HAd OCCURRED with his GF.
I told him the kids aren't getting any negative feedback from me at all, I leave it up to him to build up his relationship w/ them from this point.
tHIS MAN HELD THESE KIDS AS TIGHT AS HE COULD FOR MANY YEARS ( MARRIED 20YRS..OLDEST CHILD 16 YOUNGEST 9)and he decided to walk into another relationship w/ a woman , her 2 kids, and her Mother all living in the same house now.
But, when I found he had been w/ her I asked him to leave and soon filed for a divorce. I have been very amicable throughout the entire ordeal. I don't intend to allow him to change my mentality for any reason. I have moved on, leaving the negativity behind.

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