My husband has really crossed the line and I don't know what to do. Essentially, we have been at odds for years. We have three kids. Two years ago he got laid off from his job and went back to school to become a nurse. I paid for everything, still did most of the housework and he was the "daycare" while I worked. He is now at his new job and refuses to even provide insurance for the kids. I have just changed to part time when he went back to work so we could save on daycare. I will be losing insurance for all of us at the end of the month. He is such a selfish piece of it. I was planning to leave him after he graduated but his close friend shot himself (don't ask). No I don't care. He is disney dad to our seven year old son and my two year old twins adore him. He does NOTHING, even less now. I have the money to leave and I am sure I can get a full time job. I don't even know if counseling will help. Just rambling I guess