I have to disagree with you and also note that I think that you gave her an unfair butt chewing. We all come here for support and we all give our side of the story. Of course there is another side to all of our rantings.
He may be paying the bills, but she noted that insurance runs out end of the month and he refuses to insure them. Takes a second for insurance plans to kick in and with 3 kids I would be very irritated not to be insured.
So he is full time and she is part time so she should do all housework and childcare? That is not fair, marriage is all about teamwork and sharing.
Yes most disney dad's are adored, but who is doing the disciplining? Mom! Yes I would be ticked off too. Not that he is adored, that he isn't being a real parent. Parenting isn't all about fun.
Sounds like I just read a post from a person that did/is doing all the same things she is griping about and it hit a nerve.