=========================================================== ..."national Organization for Men" would be laughed out of existence. But "separated Parenting Association" (SPA... ok, that's a weird acronym for a bunch of men... but you see my point, look for something with a catchy acronym)... would be quite popular and would properly name the organization as one that cares about NOT try to polarize itself and embrace the extremists. =========================================================
FYI the National Organization for Men is alive and well, hardly having been "laughed out of existence":
http://www.orgformen.org/4436.html
This group could not have a more distinguished group of officers and some of their best writing can be seen here free of charge. These people have some influence on the public, through their work and notoriety, and the site has telephone numbers listed to contact them. If this name is good enough for Warren Farrell, it is good enough for me.
Can't comment more about it as I just discovered their web site after having heard something about it some time ago. Further investigate it for yourselves as I will be doing.
UPDATE 0048 CT: A good site, but still not exactly what we are looking for as an ACTIVIST alternative to NOW. Issuing press communiques, giving interviews and writing articles and books is all good, but it is still not aggressive enough. Even in the "guest comments" of this site there are posters pining for the establishment of a coordinated and focused men's rights organization, which can really wield some power, the way that NOW does!