Another benefit from counseling is that a good therapist is unbiased. Right now if you point out any fault in your husband, he will be defensive and stab back at you, but a good therapist will point out his faults in a way that doesn't make him feel attacked. Even if you tried to do that at this point, your relationsip has degenerated to the point that anything coming from you (and likely the reverse as well) will be treated like a point that needs to be countered. For example a good therapist would point out that his parenting style may get immediate gratification, but respect will be given to you. Even if you said this in the nicest of ways, he will take it as an insult and look for a way to argue against it.
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