I'm currently deployed to Iraq on tour #3. 7 months ago I discovered that my wife of 5 years cheated on me a month into my deployment. We have tried counseling, both stress and marriage counseling, to really no avail. We decided that it would be best for us, and our son, to divorce. She is now discussing a separation agreement. As I am unfamiliar with a separation agreement, I would like to know more details about it in both a civilian and military context. All my Legal Office here has said is: "Don't agree to it."