Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
[quote]I am thankful after 22 years of an abusive marriage I am not judgemental and openly try to hurt others feelings...based on my past experiences in a relationship...akc1956 [/quote]
You may want to rethink the above statement. Because your post reeked of judgement.