Thanks. I had no idea this process could take so long. I fear my ex is pursueing a "scorched earth" policy. He doesn't seem to mind running up the lawyer bills and delaying everything as long it hurts me. Can you imagine this? We have no kids, no house, and this thing is far from being settled. He seems to have latched onto an idea that now that he is "disabled" I should support him the rest of his life. Even though this "disablement" occurred three years after our separation and had nothing to do with our separation. My most important piece of advice is this: if you separate-make it a legal separation!!!! And keep records of everything!!!
THere is much more happening now, but I will wait until the next hearing to share.