My son is 14 and see's his dad every other weekend. His dad usually picks him up around 10:00 a.m on Saturday and drops him off anywhere from noon to 3:00 p.m on Sunday. Honestly I don't even know why he bothers. My son does not enjoy going over there. He has to sleep on the floor and always comes back home without being fed lunch. We have the standard parenting plan in our divorce decree for visitation and have been divorced for 5 years. Not once has my son ever spent the two weeks in the summer with him and does not want to either. His dad is re-married and has two other children now. My son actually ends up in tears when it's time for him to go to his dads house. He really can't stand going over there. I just tell him that there's nothing I can do and to try and have a good time. This just seems so unfair to my son. I feel like I am forcing him to do something that he does not want to do and it breaks my heart. Isn't there anything that I can do without being in contempt?