Divorce Support Forums: property division another question

Ex filed the same day signed on our home to sell. I had 6 weeks to move and ex had already moved hours away. He said he would help with the move and at temp hearing, my lawyer said don't plan on it. So, I got what I wanted boxed and ready. Ex calls and says to me, have the movers bring the stuff to where he lived and we would store it. I said, don't think so. Then his lawyer sent my lawyer a letter wanting everything inventoried. I told him that I was leaving things behind and that ex had already taken 30% of our things when he moved away a few years ago. He goes take everything you want...everything, otherwise you will never see it again. Sure enough during the divorce I gave my inventory list and ex didn't. So at final, ex didn't want the stuff due to having to come get it so he just let me have it. I did have to leave some things ...ie Xmas stuff and he PROMISED that I could get it from him. Well, he threw it away or something and never saw it again. Always make sure you get the things you want because most likely you will never see again and taking back to court even if awarded is not worth it.
He was awarded(fought like hell over) some guns I had and I told him he can come get them just let me know when. Never heard another thing about them and that was over a year ago. I'm sure he would like them, but to lazy to come get. Oh well his loss.

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