Thanks for the replies everyone. I guess that either way it will negatively impact each of us at some point or another. It just seems to me like having a delay instead of an outright cancellation of visitation would make it easier to deal with, so neither party would have to go three consecutive weekends without seeing our son. This will happen to her at Labor Day, and I'll gladly take the 3 weekends in a row! I'm going to look at that as the bright side!