I'm so sorry to hear about your problems in your marriage. I am a producer on a documentary for a very respectable TV station. We are making a film about relationships, and are looking for a couple who are considering going into couples therapy. If you decide that this is the route you want to go, would you consider taking part? There's a possibility that your therapy could be provided free by a renowned NY-based professor and licensed clinical psychologist with many years experience. The aim of our film is to be helpful and informative, and so we would be as respectful and sensitive as possible at all times (this is NOT sensationalist TV). If you're interested in participating, please email us at "relationshipsfilm@gmail.com" and put "DivorceSupport - marriage" in the subject line. We will not influence the direction of your therapy, or interfere with the natural course of the therapy in any way. We would simply like to find a couple willing to share their issues, a couple who could potentially show how therapy helps identify relationships problems, and provide some tools to getting things back on track.