I saw the one portraying the husband as the jackass all the way thru the first time I saw it (a few weeks) ago. I was stunned that it actually got past all the marketing people, but about the same microsecond in time it dawned on me why. And that is exactly the root of the problem. Until there is a majority force of men/fathers (and, interesting and probably moreso, women/wives) to object, it will continue.