I verbaly abused my wife for years, and now shes leaving me. Funny thing is, i did'nt even know it was abuse up until the day she told me she dont love or want me anymore. I had an affair and stuffed up her life compleatly. She moved, i moved....neither of us happy, both missing the other. I came back, she tried................so hard now it makes my heart break. I had to leave, more due to the financial situaition, and was away for 8 months. Again, she wanted me back, so i came..............and really tried this time. We had hardly had a crossed word since october but now shes done with me, out of love. I just wanted to say, that not all women portrayed on here are cast iron bitches, im getting all i deserve. And it goes to show you dont know wot you got till its gone...................cos i'd do anything to have my gorgeous wife back in my home.