This book will focus on the rights each spouse has under certain laws, situations, and circumstances, and how the division of the property will be decided by the court or through negotiation.
If at all possible, try to get someone to buy your house via a short sale. It's a LOT better than a foreclosure as far as your credit is concerned. Banks are very open to doing short sales at this time, especially, in counties such as yours. Talk to a seasoned RE agent more about it as there are some other issues to consider.