Thanks for the responses. It's not as simple as just seeing the paperwork. She only produces what she wants, we have no idea if she is lying or not. My husband tried to talk to the insurance company but they would not talk to him even though the divorce papers state he has rights to all information about his child. Very complicated! The ex is on her 5th marriage, yes that was 5, and we are really hoping she is giving us ammunition without knowing it.