also, are there rules for giving notice before summer visitation? Like, you need to know by April 15th what his vacation plans are for the summer so you can plan accordingly? These parents that think they can show up a week before a long vacation drive me nuts. Like the rest of the world sits around waiting for them to make up their mind what they're going to do, and then we all need to run around and make it happen for them?? WTF?
Check your decree to see if there's wording on visitation notice. Maybe you can get off the hook there.