I agree, this has underscored to me what really matters in life, my children.
Unfortunately there is no chance of changing the course of our divorce. I wanted to try and reconcile but the circumstances were simply too much to allow us to save our marriage. We will be splitting time on a JPC basis, I am still dreading it as it means time away from them but I know they'll get all the love they need.
We are fortunate to be able to keep this amicable, which is important to me as she is STILL the boy's mother and ultimately I want her to be successful in her relationship with them.