just making sure (cuz i KNOW it's going be an issue).
my stbx has an event where the kids need to kind of dress up.
he made Sure to tell me about the event and tell me to have the kids bring nice clothes that weekend.
i have most of what they need, but one doesnt have dress shoes (but i have a few dresses she can wear if he wants to just buy the shoes.) one of the others doesnt really have any dressy clothes (child's choice...NOT mine).
stbx sprung this event on me, and while i want the kids to look nice, if they really DO need a few things for HIS event, HE should get the things, right?
i mean, he could just keep them if he wants too..
sigh...do you KNOW what this means????
contact. i have to have contact. and im just not really up to this.
wish me luck. i have 24 hours till thursdays visitation to mentally gear up. and, no, a note or text wont work. if i dont address it Verbally now, he'll address it verbally the weekend of the event, and ruin my weekend. better face this now and be done with it.
damm. i really looked and looked and the kids looked to see if we could make sure they ALL had dress up clothes for this. and it just isnt happening.
(he DOES have to provide the clothes if i cant...right?)