[quote]Eiram - so basically you took the kids as far away from the father as possible? Did you put their pets to sleep and burn their stuffed toys too? [/quote]
let's just say, me moving the children away from him was the best thing possible. he was an abuser not only to me but to my oldest also. is it ok for a grown man to beat his 3 year old child's butt because some milk spilled out of his cup? is it ok that i had to get my arm x-rayed because i couldn't move it after he hit me? so YES, me moving the children as far away as i could was in the best interest of the children and myself. he has threaten to kill me and "bury me where no one will ever find me".
don't jump on someone unless you know the whole story.
BTW - i couldn't burn their toys cause their father destroyed them in a fit of rage.
-------------------- to my ex - what goes around, comes around. you'll get yours...