We've agreed that we can each visit the kids between our visits and spend ad-hoc time with them (they are 5 & 9). Neither one of us want to isolate the kids from the other parent, we really are trying to do the best for the kids and our relationship.
I'm just having difficulties trying to get her to see my side of reducing it to two weeks. We are in the final stages of getting paperwork together and I've asked her to just think about it before we finalize everything.
I really feel like we can agree to this if I focus on justifying my rational and keeping my focus on the well being of the kids.