[quote]My children and I have been victims of domestic violence abuse in every way by my husband for 4 yrs. I found my husband with another woman and due to that I became furious naturally in that moment slapped my husband and missed. He put me in jail anyway not to mention in front of my children and I am 4 mnths pregnant. I now am a batterer in the eyes of the law even under the circumstance. Can he use this against me to take my children even if he has couple charges he's been convicted for towards me? Please help. [/quote]
Is he the father of the children? If not, he has no legal standing.
Given that he has been convicted for doing the same thing you did, he doesn't exactly have clean hands.
I suggest you contact a lawyer and start attending anger management classes. Do you really want your kids to learn to handle their anger with violence? Because between you and your husband, that is what they are learning.