Bite your tongue hun, if you really want this to work out. YOu will run him off faster than anything with the continual fights. On "normal" days talk to him, explain how crazy the emotions are. I went thru this too. I tried very hard to just explain before I exploded. He is the one that screwed up, he needs to have some patience if he really wants it. Keep your calm, talk, talk, talk.....in a calm matter.