Oh my goodness, this has been such a roller coaster ride. Earlier today I thought it was all over. I think she did too. NOw tonight we had such a good time. We talked, I was understanding and I listened rather than criticize, and things seemed to go so well. I know it sounds stupid, even as I write this, but I didn't realize how critical I was of her. She was smiling with me and laughing a lot. i hope things are starting to turn around. Now I just need to keep this up. Any advise is greatly needed.