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Re: Lonely
      06/27/08 01:43 PM (74.94.132.66)
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Good advice so far. The book mentioned by Samsmom comes recommended.

And I know how you feel. "I'd trade all of my tomorrows for just one single yesterday!"

I remember thinking for months/years that I'd be better off without this woman. But, when she said she wanted to end it, then if felt like I was going to die on the spot. It was unbearable! When things got better I'd beat myself up thinking - why didn't I get out of this when I had the chance?

Lonliness - or Why won't that phone ring?

As a widowed friend of mine says: Lonliness is all it's cracked up to be.

She helped me last November when my s2bx went away for a month. I was ALL alone and the walls were not kind. It wasn't so much, "what am I going to do today," but "what am I going to do for the next 30 seconds."

I realized that the phone works both ways and that there are people out there that would LOVE to get a call from me. Many of them are lonely, too. Yes, it's awkward and uncomfortable at first, but reach out. It's a brave first step.

Here's a hug from me {{{Hug}}} See if you can get a real hug from someone.

Tom

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So much to forget...

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Subject Posted by Posted on
* Lonely Lacy1 06/27/08 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Lonely tookway2much   06/27/08 04:37 PM
. * * Re: Lonely Lacy1   06/27/08 04:43 PM
. * * Re: Lonely boobaby   06/27/08 04:56 PM
. * * Re: Lonely malone   06/27/08 03:15 PM
. * * Re: Lonely beblebrox   06/27/08 03:35 PM
. * * Re: Lonely boobaby   06/27/08 03:59 PM
. * * Re: Lonely beblebrox   06/27/08 04:06 PM
. * * Re: Lonely mrpat   06/28/08 09:06 AM
. * * Re: Lonely PainedPatty   06/28/08 10:50 AM
. * * Re: Lonely Lacy1   06/28/08 10:49 PM
. * * Re: Lonely Robfrommichigan   06/29/08 12:26 AM
. * * Re: Lonely Lacy1   06/29/08 04:02 PM
. * * Re: Lonely Mr.Revenge   06/29/08 05:14 PM
. * * Re: Lonely beblebrox   06/27/08 02:16 PM
. * * Re: Lonely PainedPatty   06/27/08 02:24 PM
. * * Re: Lonely NHTom   06/27/08 01:43 PM
. * * Re: Lonely brokenup   06/27/08 01:57 PM
. * * Re: Lonely Lacy1   06/27/08 02:21 PM
. * * Re: Lonely redchair   06/27/08 03:11 PM
. * * Re: Lonely Lacy1   06/27/08 04:33 PM
. * * Re: Lonely emsgirl   06/27/08 01:27 PM
. * * Re: Lonely boobaby   06/27/08 01:37 PM
. * * Re: Lonely SamsMom   06/27/08 01:18 PM

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