[quote]I know he's sent mixed messages. Withholding visitation is not the right string for you to be pulling on. The other end of that string is attached to your son. [/quote]
I am not witholding visitation. My son sees his father every other weekend as stated in the divorce decree. He is also entitled to one day in middle of the week which he chooses not to use. As far as summer HE doesnt want to pay for camp. He has not paid for afterschool or bus transportation as he is supposed to. I wanted to put my son in the ymca by my job so in case of emergency i am near him and for the flexibility. Again my ex husband does not want to pay so therefore he has to abide by the rules of the camp.