Stoltz in essence taking a paycut is what I did in order to secure 50/50 custody. I am paying roughly 50% more in child support than I should and did so to 'buy' my time with the kids. So yes I am more than anecdotal evidence of the willingness of men to do such things. She was willing to sell the kids and hey I was there with a check.
I was told there was no way in heck my particular judge would allow 50/50 custody and she had never done so in the past. Our agreement hit her desk, she saw I was paying 150% of child support she signed it without ever batting an eye. What do you think the odds of the same judge signing the same agreement with me paying 50% of the expected child support? Even if that is what the parents agreed to?
Nope courts arent biased....off my soapbox, see I wasnt up there long this time.
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