My family has planned a small three day vacation to our favorite location,Gatlinburg.My son has the children that weekend and although there is no order of any kind because they havnt divorced yet,the mother has had control all along because she feels since she is the mother she has more rights than the father.The father hasnt had any vacation time in the three years they have been seperated and going thru divorce,she takes them to tennessee and florida when she pleases,and now the problem is she is trying to get his visits supervised and we informed her of the trip a month ahead of time she says she will have to think about it.Neither one has orders of any kind and they havnt went to court for anything yet.They both have lawyers but she doesnt tell hers everything I am guessing so he will tell her what she wants to hear.The trip has been paid for ,I am the sole caretaker when Mommy and Daddy are working and we really would like for the children to join us.What do we need to do??She has also took our sons weekend to have a party for one of the children and the childs birthday is the Friday of her weekened.