I preach what you said to my kids all the time. My son called me the other day and told me one of the kids he played basketball with was texting him and wanted to meet him to fight. My son is a good boy and very popular, star jock and all that crap. Anyway I told him this other kid just wanted a shot at the title now that they are out of school for the summer. I asked him what would be gained from throwin' a beatin' on this kid. His answer was "nothing" aand he didn't want to fight him. He was just getting tired of the texts calling him a p*ssy. He decided not to answer the texts anymore and they stopped. Rational thought process for a young man and I am proud of him.