Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
I live in Oklahoma, and I would like to know the same thing, can I ask the judge to order my husband to go for councelling, I still love him, he has filed for divorce, and admitted on the papers he committed adultery, why he would do this is another question I would like to ask? I still love him and want him back, he has also put in the divorce papers that he will pay me support of $800 per month for 18 months, does this sound fair, I come over from England, been thru the immigration process, and he signed the paperwork supporting me for 10 years the I-864. I'm not good with the laws over here, so any advice would be grateful.