Divorce Support Forums: Does it ever get easier? (venting)

Col6 - Are you sure we weren't married to the same man? I am so sorry. Just know that you are not alone. I have been divorced 9 years and it has not gotten any easier. I hope and pray that some day he will realize that it's the kids he is jeopardizing, but he is out just to get me. Unfortunately, I am counting down the days that my youngest turns 18 so I will NEVER have to deal with him again. (7 years next Wednesday).

I agree with 1227 on the sporting thing. If I were you, I would stay clear of the soccer team and games. Let that be something that daddy and daughter share. He obviously did it to set you up. If he wants to sign her up for sports, then he must provide all equipment for it too. You sign her up for things you want her to be apart of. I know it will be hard not to cheer her on, but you need to limit yourself to him. He strives on the power of it all.

The only way I have gotten thru the 9 years is with much patience, many prayers and sometimes tears. Never let him get the best of you and never show it to him. That give him the power he wants.

Does he also harass you when he calls? Verbally abusive?
There are many times I think we will actually work together being parents, then he blows it by being a jerk. Just read my signature....it's my new motto.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

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to my ex - what goes around, comes around. you'll get yours...

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