Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
Thanks for the input. I'm just not sure where to go from here. I have never felt as lost as I do at this time. I'm trying to be strong around my children but it's at night that things get real tough for me. Something about a dark bedroom that make the tears start to flow. Is it normal to want to see him, talk to him and heck I'd even take an argument, even though he is treating our family in this way? I feel almost embarrassed for actually admitting to that. Anyway, thanks again for the input.