I have decided that my husband and I are going to have to divorce. He hasn't worked (by his choice) in 2 years. He takes care of our 3yr old and 10m old 2 days a week. I have them one day and on weekends primarily. My dad takes them one day and my mom takes them two days. I work 3/4 time. He has money through a trust. Will I still have to pay him alimony? And because he is home with them 2 days a week does he have a chance at getting primary custody? Should I be quitting my job before filing so I am home with them as much him?