Divorce Support Forums: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce

Divorce Support Forums: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce

The Divorce Record Keeper

The Divorce Record Keeper ($26.95)

This product has enabled thousands of people, just like you, to organize and document all the vital issues to make appropriate, conclusive and substantiated claims in and out of court.

Available by Mail and Download

You are not logged in.
[Login]
[Register Here]

Main Index · Search Forums · Active Topics
New User Registration · Who's Online · FAQ · Calendar

General Forums >> Life After Divorce

scbeck
Platinum

Reged: 12/29/07
Posts: 894
Loc: New Brunswick Canada

Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce
06/30/08 07:11 AM (99.252.97.150)

Hi Lost. Welcome to the forum. Sorry you have to be here. I think I have been where you are right now. My stbx was also ex military in the Canadian Army. He was medically discharged only 2 years after we were married with PTSD and a head injury. And really my life has been hell ever since. He stopped being the man I loved years ago with his injury and he has been cold and hostile and demanding ever since. He also wanted sex when he wanted it but the intimacy was forever gone. I held on for 13 years until he started having an affair with someone out of town and he also gave me the gift of telling me 4 days before Christmas too.

It took him leaving(I doubt I ever would have)and lots of time away with no contact plus lots of posts here and talks with friends and family to finally see there is a lot more in life and in marriage and that I deserve it. Right now I can't thank him enough. And even without him I am so much happier than I have been in years.

The only downside has been the financial headlock he has me in and keeps tightening but I think soon the courts will be helping me with that too.

I wish you luck. Even if he won't go with you to counselling you should go anyway because it can only help you to find yourself and really discover what you can and can't accept in your marriage.

PM me anytime you like and I hope you got some sleep.

Christine

--------------------
This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.

Post Extras

Print Post

Remind Me!

Notify Moderator

Entire topic
Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	ALittleLost	06/29/08 11:51 PM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	scbeck	06/30/08 07:11 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	liberated	06/30/08 07:07 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	tookway2much	06/30/08 06:53 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	Nish	06/30/08 01:41 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after div	phyzguy	06/30/08 12:36 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after div	ALittleLost	06/30/08 12:49 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	melanie14	06/30/08 12:09 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	ALittleLost	06/30/08 12:13 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after divorce	melanie14	06/30/08 12:15 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after div	PinkRose	06/30/08 12:11 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after div	ALittleLost	06/30/08 12:17 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after div	PinkRose	06/30/08 12:27 AM
Re: Is anyone here? Is there really life after div	ALittleLost	06/30/08 12:38 AM

Extra information

8 registered and 5 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:

Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is disabled

Rating:
Thread views: 285

Jump to

Contact Us | Privacy statement

Divorce Support Forums

Powered by UBB.threads™ 6.5.2