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Re: can't get alone
      06/30/08 09:33 AM (12.19.225.242)
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BB -- You've yet to reach the stage of acceptance. You're still fighting with reality.

If you do an introspective inventory, in time you will see that there were many steps leading up to your separation. You'll remember interactions that left you puzzled or things you did that contributed to her unhappiness. It unfolds that way.

At some point, you will see the inevitability of it all - for whatever reason. You can't fight it when your partner is no longer invested in your relationship. It just is.

Like most of us, you will fume and fight and grieve, but eventually, you must surrender. To continue fighting this will destroy you.

In time, you will see that everything is as it should be and you'll find a way to ride the wave, not try to push it back into the ocean.

Let go.

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The sweetest thing you'll ever see in the whole wide world is a happy girl.

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* can't get alone beblebrox 06/30/08 08:13 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone mrpat   06/30/08 09:53 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone ATVILLAS   06/30/08 08:25 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone beblebrox   06/30/08 09:00 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone MarMcMar   06/30/08 09:33 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone beblebrox   06/30/08 10:06 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone MarMcMar   06/30/08 10:32 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone germangirl631   06/30/08 10:28 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone beblebrox   06/30/08 10:45 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone Mr.Revenge   06/30/08 11:01 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone beblebrox   06/30/08 11:10 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone Mr.Revenge   06/30/08 11:19 AM
. * * Re: can't get alone beblebrox   06/30/08 09:42 AM

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