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Well, the long silence between stbx and I following the separation has been broken, and not by me. It's a long sad story, but the high points of it were that when we starting seeing each other in 2004, she offered to pay me to marry her so that she could get her immigration papers. I refused, and the topic never came up again. However, she did keep pressuring me and threatening to leave to find someone who would marry her (for money) and finally in 2006 I gave in. Married life was good at first, but then became rougher and rougher until more often than not she would not come home at night. Six months pre-separation we went to a marriage counselor at my insistence. I did all of the talking. Her petition for conditional permanent residency was 1/13 of this year. It was approved, and a week later she was gone. That was the last I heard from her until last Tuesday, when she called to tell me she was sending a separation agreement and basically ordered me to sign it. On a related note, it was weird to hear her talk to me as if I were the same person I was 6 months ago, who she could boss around and cajole into doing well, about anything. Anyhow, the separation agreement came on Friday, and it was filled with various lies, the most egregious of which was probably the assertion that we separated 6/19... just shy of 5 months after the actual separation. Needless to say, I'm not signing that piece of trash. But seeing it there has got my dander up just enough to do what I've been unwilling to do in the 5 months since the separation-- fight her. She's defrauded me, she's defrauded the government in my name, and I'll no longer have anything to do with it. I'm going to see a lawyer this week and file for annulment on the basis of marital fraud. I was hesitant to do this before because in my mind I still loved her and didn't want to hurt her. But I realize now that whatever comes of this will be the consequences of her actions, and thanks to her those are no longer my problem. So look out, ipso's on the warpath.
-------------------- One must want nothing to be different... not only to bear what is necessary, but to love it.
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