I certainly have no intention of keeping my son from his father!! Not where I was going with this at all!! My only concern is that two weeks is far too long to be away from either his mother or his father. My other concern is that in the 5 years my son has been alive my STBX has not shown any interest in spending time with with him. Not once has he ever said 'Hey, let's go out and play' or 'Hey, let's do something together'. The only time he has spent with DS is when I ask him to. Now suddenly he thinks he can take care of him by himself for two weeks straight? My worry is solely for the wellbeing of my DS NOT trying to keep STBX from seeing him.
I might be willing to go 1 week on and 1 week off with a visit or two during the week. Any other thoughts?