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Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think?
      07/01/08 07:14 AM (122.57.190.165)
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Okay. You'll remember that my marriage experience includes being the breadwinner financially for years, then losing half of everything (actually more), and finally having to start all over again which I'm now doing.

So I'm having a complete collision between my belief that money isn't everything in a relationship and my belief that I need to protect the future for my kids and I. In other words, if he isn't financially secure in his own right, I'm not sure if it could go anywhere. It's not the kind of person I am to think that way. On the other hand, I keep reminding myself that if I hooked up with another guy who took half of everything, I wouldn't be able to get a house anymore. I couldn't go through that stress again.

But what if a guy ticks boxes in all other areas for instance? This is a bit theoretical for now, but it's on my mind. Would like to know what you and anyone else think. It's one of my big questions for myself (something I'm trying to work out about me) for going forwards.

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* Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone 07/01/08 07:14 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? Nish   07/03/08 03:45 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? stoltz   07/01/08 11:50 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? Jada   07/01/08 07:22 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 07:27 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? julestn   07/11/08 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? Sarah1014   07/01/08 07:51 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 08:01 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? MarMcMar   07/01/08 09:10 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 02:29 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? scbeck   07/08/08 08:11 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? numbnms   07/02/08 09:07 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? is it over   07/01/08 09:43 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? mrpat   07/01/08 11:27 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? germangirl631   07/01/08 11:42 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? mrpat   07/01/08 11:52 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? germangirl631   07/01/08 11:56 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? MarMcMar   07/01/08 12:13 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? abbysfv   07/01/08 12:11 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? mrpat   07/01/08 12:04 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? julestn   07/04/08 01:49 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? germangirl631   07/01/08 12:09 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? numbnms   07/01/08 08:33 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? saamrodi   07/08/08 10:34 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? mrpat   07/09/08 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 08:45 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? gigi   07/01/08 12:48 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 02:19 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? liberated   07/01/08 08:44 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? julestn   07/01/08 02:33 PM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 08:54 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? liberated   07/01/08 09:00 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? malone   07/01/08 09:10 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? Motor-Head   07/01/08 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Gigi, Nish, Mari, others, what do you think? numbnms   07/01/08 09:38 AM

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