Divorce Support Forums: He doesn't love me anymore

We have been married for 8years and have two kids. Since the beginning my husband has been wanting to call it quit. It’s been three times that this happens but we decide to work things out. The three times have been initiated by my husband telling me that he’s not happy with me anymore. I love him so much that I keep trying to work things out but I have given up. He obviously has been miserable for 8years of his life and I am to the point that I am willing to let him go. It’s not a good feeling to be the one that has to beg for us to stay in the relationship. This has in fact made me insecure about myself and about our relationship. Well a few days ago he told me again that he is not happy with me and he’s sure that I haven’t been happy either. This time I have made up my mind and I will not beg him to stay with me. It hurts so much but I am willing to set him free so he can be happy. He has been staying at his parent’s house for the past 2 days because I told him that I don’t want to be under the same roof as him. I don’t have a job and don’t have any family here so I’ve made up my mind to go back home but I need some time to do that. He’s rushing me to make a decision so he can come back to our house because he doesn’t want to stay at his parent’s house. Whether it’s a game or not I will be packing my bags and kids and go home to my family. Am I doing the right thing?? I still love him and it hurts but I feel it’s better to hurt now than to hurt 3 or 4 times down the road. I need some suggestions. I can’t make someone stay with me just because I want them to.

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