He actually came home last night and we talked. He told me he is not in love with me anymore and told me that he's not attracted to me either. He says that I don't care about myself anymore, which is true but is that a reason to leave someone. He says all I do is complain and that makes him miserable. Over the years I've gained alot of weight and it's now that I'm doing something about it. He just says that I'm always complaining...Is this a valid reason or should I just move on...It makes me feel so bad to know that I'm not attractive.