You are asking for reasonable things, but the only change in circumstance is you. You have now moved 2x in 3 years. A judge (and your ex) is going to hear what you want and what your daughter wants, but I would expect someone to ask you about your plans for the next 3 years - another 2 moves??
Custody is changed when circumstances change. You came back and immediately filed to take over what you gave up three years ago. I am guessing that you will not get 60/40 but closer to a normal NCP schedule of EOW. Sorry - just my view.