Although I'm no huge fan of Nancy Grace, I am apalled and distrubed in a Nancy-Grace kind of way at your description of the quasi-kiddie-[censored] video this woman made of your step child! If this isn't abuse, or a one-way ticket to abuse, I don't know what is! It's horrifying to me that you would need a psych eval to get the child away from this woman, given the video she made public. So sorry you're going through this - good luck to you!
You know, my husband's ex is close to insane, but I can't imagine her ever doing this sort of thing. Thanks for putting things into perspective for me!