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NHTom
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Re: Is this mean?
07/03/08 12:56 PM (74.94.132.66)

I can see why he might think it was mean. He just wants to help you celebrate.

There's no problem in that, except that it'll likely be very painful for you.

Not going out with him is a way to avoid UNNECESSARY pain. For you it's a defensive measure. You have to protect yourself.

Simply telling him "I'm sorry, but I don't think I can handle that right now" should suffice. If he doesn't understand that, he's dumber than he looks.

Self-respect at this time in our lives is very precious. Guard it jealously.

Tom

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So much to forget...

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Is this mean?	brokenup	07/03/08 11:22 AM
Re: Is this mean?	germangirl631	07/04/08 07:27 AM
Re: Is this mean?	brokenup	07/04/08 09:19 AM
Re: Is this mean?	germangirl631	07/04/08 09:23 AM
Re: Is this mean?	cwag	07/03/08 09:26 PM
Re: Is this mean?	norcal	07/03/08 04:09 PM
Re: Is this mean?	Jada	07/03/08 04:00 PM
Re: Is this mean?	scbeck	07/03/08 08:09 PM
Re: Is this mean?	is it over	07/03/08 12:29 PM
Re: Is this mean?	redchair	07/03/08 12:40 PM
Re: Is this mean?	NHTom	07/03/08 12:56 PM
Re: Is this mean?	lairdude	07/03/08 06:44 PM
Re: Is this mean?	lairdude	07/03/08 11:52 AM
Re: Is this mean?	sohurt	07/03/08 11:35 AM
Re: Is this mean?	col6	07/03/08 11:34 AM
Re: Is this mean?	taryn	07/03/08 11:29 AM
Re: Is this mean?	SetterMama	07/03/08 11:27 AM
Re: Is this mean?	PainedPatty	07/03/08 11:25 AM

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