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I so know how you feel. I also was so sure I was well over all this BS and on my way to recovery and for the last few days I have been in "self pity mode" and feeling jealous about how great his new life is and how so alone I am. I know this is being provoked because he is on his way to pick up our daughter for visitation with him for the first time in the 8 months we have been separated. My daughter will be gone for at least a month and I have no guarantee it won't be longer because our agreement is if she really wants to stay longer she can up unitl the beginning of school. In fact he keeps sending me messages saying"you never know she may decide she wants to live with me and if she does she won't be back".

We haven't been to court yet but my lawyer has said as long as he will sign an agreement with a pick-up and return date and inform me of any changes our daughter wishes to make to same then it will be OK for her to go.

My stbx would never go on family trips either so I know if he took our daughter and his GF and her kids on a trip to Disney I would be sooooo upset. He even used his PTSD as an excuse to not be able to travel. Funny how he is managing just fine travelling to come and get his daughter.

Oh yeah. I am soooo with you.

Christine

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This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.

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