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NHTom
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Re: My first post..so confused
07/03/08 09:55 PM (74.94.132.66)

Hi 14,

>I know I can't stop the divorce

If you know you can't then the sooner you accept it the sooner you can start to move forward. For me it felt like the framework upon which I built my life had collapsed. Exorcising her out of my soul felt like dying. It went faster and hurt a little less when I consciously let go and let that part of me die.

But first you need to KNOW that it's over. Now that I've let my s2bx go in my heart, I don't want her back. It felt so wrong at first - like I had betrayed an oath.

Don't play games with him with your son. That just makes you dirty. You'll have to live with yourself for a long time after this whole thing is over.

Hang in there. That's what the rest of us are doing.
Tom

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So much to forget...

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
My first post..so confused	lonely14	07/03/08 07:25 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	tookway2much	07/07/08 07:27 AM
Re: My first post..so confused	germangirl631	07/04/08 09:22 AM
Re: My first post..so confused	brokenup	07/04/08 09:48 AM
Re: My first post..so confused	Robfrommichigan	07/04/08 08:39 AM
Re: My first post..so confused	lonely14	07/05/08 10:01 AM
Re: My first post..so confused	Robfrommichigan	07/05/08 02:25 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	lonely14	07/06/08 05:59 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	phyzguy	07/04/08 03:50 AM
Re: My first post..so confused	Jada	07/03/08 07:42 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	lonely14	07/03/08 07:50 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	NHTom	07/03/08 09:55 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	lonely14	07/03/08 10:08 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	jeepmome	07/03/08 10:19 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	lonely14	07/03/08 11:07 PM
Re: My first post..so confused	NHTom	07/03/08 10:17 PM

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