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Re: 2 0r 20
      07/03/08 10:24 PM (68.44.208.144)
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oh, you are not the only one. my stbx isn't the disney dad, but he's now pretending to be the dad and husband i wanted him to be. i just posted last night about him taking my kids to the county fair. something i always did, usually without him. he just never wanted to do those things. i can count on my two hands how many times we did "family" things in our 10+ years of being married. now he takes the gf to the movies (we went once in 12 years of being together), they go out to dinner, take the kids to chuck e cheese, the boardwalk....all these are things we never did. 14 months later and it still blindsides me sometimes. i truly don't love him anymore. i actually almost hate him, so this shit shouldn't bother me, but sometimes it really, really does. and this past couple of weeks it is hitting me hard.

anyway, enough about me! again, you are not alone. i just wish i had the words to make you feel better. i'm sure it gets easier some day. i just don't know when that is.

kat

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* 2 0r 20 cwag 07/03/08 07:55 PM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 juliacinaz   07/03/08 08:47 PM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 scbeck   07/03/08 08:35 PM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 newlife123   07/03/08 08:53 PM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 cwag   07/03/08 09:03 PM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 ssrachel   07/03/08 10:24 PM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 cwag   07/04/08 12:06 AM
. * * Re: 2 0r 20 SetterMama   07/04/08 09:16 AM
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