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NHTom
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She never showed up.
07/04/08 10:29 AM (74.94.132.66)

This is so as not to hijack phyzguy's thread and the "miracle of birth" thread and to answer Mrs. Liberty's comment that my s2bx must have really loved at some point.

I'm not really angry at my s2bx for busting up the family. I figure she can't help it. Her family of origin was so dysfunctional and she was so disempowered that she couldn't say "no" to anyone. Through the desire to protect and heal her I fell completely in love. I was going to make it all better for her. She did what she'd done all her life - kept her head low and quietly accepted whatever came down. She was pleasant, but a little distant. I figured that she's come around. I could be patient.

As our marriage councilor put it, I pursued her heart... for 30 years. She got sick of it and left.

What kind of sick b@st@rd would keep reaching out to a woman for 30 years and beg her to come home after leaving him? I was dedicated to her. I was dedicated to marriage. I was dedicated to my family.

It was she who couldn't commit.

So, you see, it's not my fault. None of it. It was doomed from the start. I can stay the same because I'm just right.

I'm doomed to repeat this and live in misery for the duration if I don't correct my cranial/rectal inversion.

She never showed up. She just went through the motions. Leaving me could be the best thing anyone has ever done for me. I just wish she'd done it - 30 years ago.

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So much to forget...

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
She never showed up.	NHTom	07/04/08 10:29 AM
Re: She never showed up.	norcal	07/11/08 09:34 PM
Re: She never showed up.	tookway2much	07/11/08 07:32 PM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/11/08 08:59 PM
Re: She never showed up.	Mr.Revenge	07/11/08 09:25 PM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/12/08 09:28 AM
Re: She never showed up.	PainedPatty	07/12/08 10:46 AM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/11/08 09:34 PM
Re: She never showed up.	tookway2much	07/12/08 07:39 AM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/12/08 09:15 AM
Re: She never showed up.	phyzguy	07/12/08 08:13 AM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/11/08 09:44 PM
Re: She never showed up.	scbeck	07/11/08 10:28 PM
Re: She never showed up.	phyzguy	07/04/08 10:52 AM
Re: She never showed up.	scbeck	07/11/08 10:17 PM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/12/08 12:40 AM
Re: She never showed up.	scbeck	07/12/08 02:59 PM
Re: She never showed up.	NHTom	07/12/08 07:13 PM
Re: She never showed up.	juliacinaz	07/04/08 10:59 AM
Re: She never showed up.	phyzguy	07/04/08 11:10 AM

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