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Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end!
      07/06/08 05:26 PM (76.23.69.169)
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Patty,

I haven't posted forever but have been lurking now and then. I'm praying the buyer obtains the loan tomorrow! What an awful snafu at such a late date.

My husband, much like yours, left last October three days after my daughter's wedding. He slithered out without a word until he told me on the phone that he just didn't think we were going to make it (after 20 years together). He too has a constant need for admiration and approval. I had been pretty disillusioned the past couple years but would never have left him the way he did me. He denied and denied, swore to my daughter and sister there was no one else, didn't want the divorce, etc. I have since found he not only has someone else but has been living with her from the day he left. What a loser. He's not tried to have a relationship with my chilren or grandchildren, all of whom I thought he loved and cared for. They're all very hurt too. The jerk has the nerve to still tell me he doesn't wan a divorce. If he doesn't, I'm sure it's because the hedious bar [censored] he's with will press him for marriage.

Patty, if you don't mind telling, why don't you just go ahead and file? I did within a month of his leaving because I was scared to death about financial matters and needed to know what to do to protect myself. I do the bookkeeping for his company and haven't had a job other than that for the past eight years. Had I left it to him, I'm sure I'd be even deeper in limbo than I am right now. We just took him to court to get an order for him to produce documents and financial disclosure so hopefully things might be settled fairly soon.

Hang in there...you have a lot of people thinking of and praying for you!

Hugs, Judy

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* Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty 07/06/08 08:43 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! tookway2much   07/09/08 06:50 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/09/08 09:30 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! cwag   07/09/08 09:32 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! constellation   07/08/08 04:33 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! tookway2much   07/07/08 07:05 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/07/08 09:24 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! ipso   07/07/08 11:28 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/07/08 08:07 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! happytobdivorced   07/08/08 04:27 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/08/08 05:24 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! constellation   07/09/08 01:43 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! Nish   07/09/08 12:44 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! cwag   07/08/08 06:53 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! Books29   07/07/08 08:21 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! happytobdivorced   07/07/08 09:33 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! Clementine   07/06/08 09:10 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! scbeck   07/06/08 04:58 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! judylee   07/06/08 05:26 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/06/08 06:21 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! emsgirl   07/06/08 07:09 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/06/08 05:20 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! Cari115   07/06/08 10:57 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/06/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! boobaby   07/06/08 01:35 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! melanie14   07/06/08 01:55 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! NHTom   07/06/08 01:53 PM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! mfergel   07/06/08 09:11 AM
. * * Re: Too much to deal with, please let it end! PainedPatty   07/06/08 09:32 AM
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